Blog Stories Construction Woes

Construction Woes

By Dill Ward, March 12, 2021

Who hasn’t seen an erratic driver taking some wild risks to bypass any slowing traffic? Riding on the shoulder of the freeway, crossing a solid line, swerving past cones to turn on a “no turns” street, going up a “do not enter” ramp, turning into oncoming traffic to get to their destination 2 minutes earlier (only to cause an accident which puts them behind schedule by an hour)… I know I’ve seen plenty of wacky driving lately because these are all literal experiences I’ve had on the road this week.

Every week some road gets obstructed in some way that clogs up a wonderful neighborhood, or slogs down a main thoroughfare to our favorite destinations. Some drivers don’t handle unexpected delays very well, causing erratic driving, which leads to collisions and yet more traffic. What can we control about these situations? We can control how we choose to drive. If the momentary setback of your favorite route being closed, or your quickest path to work having a long-term project blocking more than just a lane, becomes too aggravating, perhaps shifting your expectations will get you into a better baseline mood. But… How does one shift expectations?

1: Forgetaboutit!

Forgetting that you had a favorite/faster route than the one you’re currently utilizing? Wild right, but if you think about it, you’re not losing any ground, you are stuck with your current commute, and all the agitation about the recurring delays/unexpected obstructions will do you no good mentally… so, just forget about it. Pretend that you’re back in a new routine and you have to find a way home accepting that those roads are closed, bonus to forgetting about your favorite paths is that when roads reopen it is like getting an amazing gift. When I learn of a new restriction on turns, I internalize a “challenge accepted” sense of adventure, looking for the most efficient path through the new obstacles.

2. Celebrate!

Celebrate the roundabout coming to your once speeder-friendly path, acknowledge that you’re going to get more time to soak up the character of neighborhoods you might have otherwise overlooked. Celebrate the safety of areas that your accustomed to passing through, some kid on that street is going to get to ride their bike a little more frequently now. Celebrate that the city that you enjoy is getting a new feature which you’ll be first to see in action. Lane closures for bike paths on Foster, no problem, I’m going to enjoy knowing that someone on their bike will soon be safely riding to their favorite recently more bike-able business. Entire street shut down for upgraded sewer pipes, no worries, I’m happy knowing that some fine resident is going to have a lower chance of their toilet backing up or their stormwater flowing copiously into their basement.

3. Educate Yourself.

To say that infrastructural improvements frequently cause unusual traffic patterns may be an understatement. Personally, I’ve found reminding myself that improvements are coming is a positive tone for the momentary/reoccurring frustrations. However, learning about planned construction/improvements can help alleviate the frustrations of not knowing where the construction is happening, the best tool for preparing yourself for predictable driving delays can be found at ODOT’s Projects page. Check once a month to see if your favorite streets are affected, and read up on what the project’s goals are to understand why the inconvenience is coming your way.

Ultimately, how recklessly other people drive should not degrade how you drive. I know that many of the cars I share the road with are skilled at managing your road-rage. What other ways do you find beneficial in coping with unexpected driving/cycling/commuting delays?

Dill Ward

Principal Broker

She/Her

I'm a strategist at heart. Once we've got a clear vision on your goals I love drawing the road map how to get there. I'm a natural problem solver and resiliency is my superpower. I get excited by nudging you to see the bigger picture of your goals when the process can drag you down into the moment. I've been called by my clients as, "contagiously enthusiastic". Selling a home or taking the leap to buy is an exciting transition which can create other shifts and opportunities for you to take control of the direction of your life and discover the next version of yourself.

WILL YOU TAKE TWO BUCKS INSTEAD OF THREE?

Negotiating was a skill I honed early in life, whether it was persuading for a later bedtime, or heading down to South Florida flea markets where my parents would encourage me to, "work a deal" on a comic book or a kitchen gadget. Even back then, I loved the thrill of asking for what I want.

HOW I'M WIRED:

For those of you who geek out about self development and personality tests, my "Strengths Finder" results are: Positivity, Strategic, Activator, Learner, and Ideation.

I LOVE PORTLAND! (and welcoming new people)

I relocated to Portland from Florida in 2010, and am grateful to have built an incredible life here in this weird city. It's always an honor to be a welcoming face and a warm smile to others arriving and looking for home.

WHAT I DO WHEN I'M NOT THINKING ABOUT REAL ESTATE?

Wait, is that a thing? I'm always thinking about real estate. I love wheeling and dealing! Before I was a REALTOR®, I started the journey as an investor. Fun fact: I helped an investment group flip over 100 properties my first 2 years in industry! I've had a rental portfolio for over 10 years and dabble in all areas of the industry. My speciality is the concierge level service we can deliver when someone wants to sell and let us take the wheel. My team and I love to work as project managers and orchestrate the 50 different vendors & contractors to make miracles happen in short amounts of time.

I'M PASSIONATE ABOUT

• My husband & biz-partner Nicholas. (He's a High Performance Coach & REALTOR® -- dreamy combo!), and our young daughter Nori. • Building Community! Check out Women who Own it, a monthly meetup community for women homeowners. • Offering networking opportunities, encouragement, and business coaching for women in business at Women with Moxie. • Spreading motivation and inspiration in the world through public speaking and event emceeing. • Finding ways to make people smile. Enough about me -- if you are still reading this far, i'm dying to know about you! Use my easy online scheduler and let's book a meeting! Buy, sell, just a get-to-know each other to possibly collaborate on some amazing project? Easy breezy!

<< LET'S BOOK A MEETING! >>

Read More
  • T: 503-278-9697
  • dill@dillwardgroup.com

You might also enjoy

Kindness is transformative

Andy Meeks

Good news has been short supply these days, so when we witness something thoughtful, kind, selfless...

Little Red Farmhouse with the Big Oak Tree

Natalie Strom

This sweet house feels as lyrical as a John Mellencamp song…. Congrats to my buyer who...

A Jade District Gem

Lisa Avena

One of the pleasures of having a referral based business is being able to work with...

Sold!

Christopher Johnson

Congratulations to our sellers on the sale of their gorgeous home near Peninsula Park.